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April 02, 2013

STANDARD MENTALITIES OF THE RIGHT, GOOD AND RESPONSIBLE PARENTS AND LEADERS



BY: GLECERIO TANGARO CANDADO


For how many centuries that are passing by, as of seeing and observing in our surrounding, so plenty of us who are not having knowledge of the right and wrong mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories even if the situations are repeatedly happens that supposedly nurturing of ourselves of the advantages and disadvantages, the positive and negative consequences of it, but still seems no one else is having right understanding of it, and part of the reason of the existence of the STANDARD MENTALITIES OF THE RIGHT, GOOD AND RESPONSIBLE PARENTS AND LEADERS for us can be having right guidelines while we are struggling and striving upon facing of the life realities.


01_Shall be flexible and independent persons.


02_Shall not be abusers to the rights of the child or children and people.


03_Shall be approachable in whatever situations and reasons or else explanations.


04_Shall not think and act higher comparing of their child or children and people.


05_Shall not entertain and follows any of the religions and other faith organizations.


06_Shall not accept wrong reasons and explanations but having right understanding and considerations of it.


07_Shall be having knowledge in teaching of their child or children and people without any of the punishments.


08_Shall be having knowledge of some of the right and wrong mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories.


09_Shall not take advantage as of using their status of being parents or else leaders upon getting opportunity and favor comparing with the others.


10_Shall be prioritizing and having focus on practical and logical mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories.


11_Shall not doing something that will be discriminating of the right mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories.


12_Shall be model in learning, performing and making or doing some of the right mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories.


13_Shall not kill and eat meat from several living creatures such as fish, animals, birds and more others that are having life and can feel pains the same with us.


14_Shall be having knowledge in handling or else managing of every mind thinking or mentality as of controlling reactions, behaviors, attitudes or else feelings or emotions.


15_Shall be having knowledge in proper communications or else conversations which who can be calmly approaching of their child or children and people upon making instructions and corrections.


16_Shall be having right understanding and considerations upon seeing and observing of their child or children and people as of getting or committing errors, mistakes or else wrongdoings as well crimes.


17_Shall be having interest and willingness in teaching of the child or children and people as of getting or committing errors, mistakes or else wrongdoings without expecting any returns upon doing of it.


18_Shall be able and can be performing and making or doing some of the right mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories even if the others are not seeing and observing of it.


19_Shall be having acceptance of any suggestions especially corrections upon getting or committing errors, mistakes or else wrongdoings as well crimes from the child or children and people without any hurt feelings.


20_Shall be having stands always in the middle in whatever personal grudges or conflicts as of settling down of it. Likewise, shall be having stands always in the middle in whatever situations, reasons and explanations of it.


21_Shall not believe and follows any of the baseless impractical and ridiculous mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories such as faith to God, different rituals and prayers and other superstitious belief.


22_Shall be having knowledge to define and determine what will be right and wrong mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories through experimentation and observations as of finding facts or basis to the truth of it.


23_Shall not engage of their selves in any vices such as addictive of taking or using of whether legal or illegal drugs, cigarette smoking, drinking liquors, gambling and more other impractical and ridiculous mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories.


24_Shall be having knowledge in handling or else managing of the mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories of their child or children and people without learning, performing and making or doing any of the punishments upon seeing and observing of getting or committing errors, mistakes or else wrongdoings as well crimes.


25_Shall be having knowledge that everyone is having equal and uniform rights as of not expecting any respects from their child or children and people. Likewise, shall not exercise and practice the respect towards with one another instead of learning, performing and making or doing some of the right mind thinking, mentalities, behaviors, attitudes or else principles and theories even without it, since everyone is having equal and uniform rights upon living and surviving here in this world.